Meditation Techniques To Eliminate Anxiety

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Meditation techniques to eliminate anxiety are now within the reach of everyone.

Three main meditation techniques have been studied in clinical trials to establish effectiveness in reducing, treating, and in some cases completely eliminating anxiety through meditation.  Those three techniques are:

  • Mantra meditation, especially TM — which is repeating a phrase many times, with attention, commitment, and awareness to the process.
  • Mindfulness meditation – the more challenging practice of “paying attention to your attention” has been studied at Harvard, Mayo Clinic, and many other universities.
  • Guided meditation and guided visualization have extensive studies as well, including some really promising recent results treating Iraq war veterans with PTSD.  Dr. Harlan Kilstein, a Harvard trained educator is releasing his Guided Meditation Techniques To Eliminate Anxiety program very soon.

Because of the effectiveness of meditation to reduce and eliminate anxiety, many therapists are teaching meditation reduce the symptoms of stress, worry, and anxiety.

Here’s an article by Sunada, that appeared in the wonderful Wildmind site here.

Meditation Techniques
To Eliminate Anxiety

meditation techniques to eliminate anxiety

Meditation techniques to eliminate anxiety are proving far more effective than medication.

One of my clients — I’ll call him Mark — took up meditation to help with his lifelong anxiety. He was all too aware of his tendency to over-analyze and worry about everything. He’d been meditating on and off for two years, gone on retreats, read tons of dharma books, done everything he could think of.

But he felt like there was no progress at all. He told me that every sit still featured that same old frenzied monkey mind swinging from tree to tree. It was nothing but frustration.

I have to say, I empathize. I bet you’ve been in a similar place, too. We all take up meditation with some kind of goal in mind. And we really do put in our best efforts. But what do we do when it doesn’t work?

We’ve all been told since childhood that if we want something to happen, we have to MAKE it happen. This is true, up to a point.

But for Mark, this was creating the exact opposite of what he wanted. The harder he tried, the more it stirred up his mind. The more it emphasized how far he was from where he wanted to be. Which brought on more anxiety and self-criticism. The more he pushed himself, the more another part of him rebelled. He’d get into battles with himself.

Ugh! Stop!

For one, I thought his mindfulness practice was doing just fine. It was going so well that he was seeing himself – and his overactive mind – face to face, as it really was. Congratulations, I told him. Your meditation IS working for you. Just because you don’t like what you see doesn’t make it wrong.

When we’re dealing with lifelong habits and tendencies, taking up meditation won’t make them just go away. It’s not like a pill we take to get rid of the parts of ourselves that we don’t like. It’s more like a very accurate mirror. It reflects us back in great intimate detail, so we can see clearly and start working with ourselves better. This is when things can really start happening.

Sure it sounds unpleasant. But which would you prefer — to stick with the same old familiar habits that aren’t working, or venture into new territory that points to freedom from those habits?

And so how do we point toward freedom?

I think the answer is to give up. I’m serious.

I don’t mean give up meditation. I mean give up the fight. I suggested to Mark that he stop all the effort and obsessing. Just sit and be with what is. Everything changes in every moment. Just observe the organic ebb and flow.

What? How does that help?

Obviously we can’t change what’s already happened. Anxiety, frustration, worry – whatever is there is there, for better or worse. It does no good to get upset about it. All we can do is change the way we RESPOND to what’s there.

So rather than meeting it with more judgment and frenzy, we meet it with acceptance, calm, and kindness. We’re practicing being the sort of person we want to be, RIGHT NOW. We stop perpetuating the same old cycle. If we can’t muster a calm and kind response, even just taking a breath and acknowledging what’s happening is a change in the right direction. ANY tiny step in the direction of less frenzy is great. That’s all it takes.

Mark wondered how he’d know if he’s making any progress. It feels so … well … passive.

I suggested that he drop worrying about that as well. Really, we can’t know what “progress” will look like. We’ll know it when we see it, but we can’t predict what it’ll be in advance — in the same way that we can’t predict what a particular oak tree will look like when holding it in acorn form.

But we DO know that acorns grow upward toward the sun. If we keep our intentions pointed upward in the same way (not grasping or worrying, but just facing upward and keeping a open, positive attitude), progress is inevitable.

As the Buddha said,

“If one speaks or acts with a pure mind, happiness follows like a shadow that never departs.”

Note he said “happiness follows.”

Not “we make happiness happen.”

 

Sunada, in this article, is very clear that happiness follows meditation, which is a more subtle version of meditation makes you happy.

Please leave a comment below if you would like to learn more about Dr. Kilstein’s new program Guided Meditation Techniques To Eliminate Anxiety.

And.. if you have friends or family that worry too much, who are not handling stress well, please click the LIKE button below to share it on Facebook.  That way you can help everyone learn that meditation techniques to eliminate anxiety are easy to learn, and available here.

 

 

Comments

  1. Annie Peters says:

    What an AWESOME article. I could so relate to Mark… in this constant search for peace, which in itself is also one more thing to stress about ~ as if I have the time to stress over anything else. Your article has touched me in so many different ways. I’m thinking UGG ! STOP ! is just what I need to do. Instead of the constant search for, I believe I just need to accept and let go… learn to breathe and live. Everything really is, just what it is. Tomorrow, I will use the time I search for things on peace, and then the time I worry about what I don’t do and JUST DO IT ! I know what to do, just need to do it and be open and accepting to what lies ahead, not be afraid of it. Thank you ! <3 Namaste :)

    • Hi Annie — thanks for the wonderful comment. I think many of us in this frantic modern world really need meditation more than ever. Your idea of searching for peace is… of course… wonderful and simple and profound. I just put a yellow sticky note above my computer monitor reminding me — PEACE–

      Thanks!

  2. Have been struggling with hyper-anxiety very much lately. Please help. Thank you.

  3. I NEED this meditation

  4. I would love this!

  5. Great article…and reassuring. Thank you!

  6. Let me know what Dr. Kilsteins program is available

  7. I would like to know more about mantra mediation. Mindfulness meditation has been a huge help for my anxiety. Thanks!

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